Getting back to normal

Our house went on the market on Wednesday.  (Here’s the link to the virtual tour, if you want to see it.)  Twenty-four hours later we’d already had 5 showings and one offer — an OFFER.  Our agent is coming at noon today to present us that offer.  Crazy to think that (maybe, maybe) it could be sold this fast.  Crossing fingers that all goes well.

After months of painting and packing and cleaning and fluffing, I’m looking forward to our spare time not being taken up by the house and for life to start feeling normal again.

And already, with the bulk of the work done at the old house, I’m feeling more relaxed. Monday I made a big batch of bone broth, which I hadn’t done in awhile. Next on my list is a triple batch of enchiladas for the freezer. Tuesday I printed out the girls’ spring school schedule– those daily check boxes help a lot with accountability.  Wednesday I made biscuits to go with chicken soup.the start of a good pot of soup

I’ve decorated the piano with some Valentine’s Day finery, and have a craft or two up my sleeve to do with anyone so inclined.  I think sometime this weekend I’ll probably make some bacon lentil soup. And hey– I’m even blowing the dust off my blog.  Feels good.

I just heard about a website that I love the idea of– it’s called BuyMeOnce.Com and features items that should last you a lifetime.  So many things these days are made so cheaply that I love the idea of durable quality.  Just about the only things I’ve bought that I’m certain would last that long are my cast iron skillets, which I bought very affordably at a farm supply store in the camping section.  I’m thinking BuyMeOnce.Com is spendier, but there are some items that might justify that additional cost.

Speaking of shopping, if you live near a Costco but don’t yet have a membership, you might be interested in this screaming-good deal on Living Social:  $55 for a year of membership that also includes a $20 Costco gift card, free batteries, passes to the food court, and all sorts of other goodies.  Kinda makes me sad that I’m already a member and can’t get this deal.  Disclosure:  if you click on the link and get the deal, my daughter earns credit on Living Social.  Super good deal if you’re needing a Costco membership!  :)



More house pictures!

I’m so excited to show you some photos of our home, all staged and ready to go on the market next Monday! A friend of mine owns a staging business called Graceful Designs and did a beautiful job of highlighting all the hard work we’ve done to make our much-beloved family home comfortable and lovely for its next owner. Our hope is that someone will totally fall in love with it, and go on to make beautiful family memories of their own!

Here’s the living room:

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Our lovely remodeled granite kitchen:


Here are some photos of the master suite. master (2)
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A cozy upstairs bedroom:



The upstairs bonus room

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I’ll share a link to the listing site next week with even more photos!

sneak peek of kitchen loveliness

Fixing up the old house to sell has been completely consuming lately, but as you can tell by this shot of the lovely new kitchen, it is all coming together.  Here is a picture of the kitchen before, just to refresh your memory.


And here is the new kitchen, complete with brand new cabinets and granite.




More coming soon, I promise.

Love, Unrationed

One thing after another has been thwarting me in the blogging department lately. First, of course, the move. Then it took 2 weeks to get internet at the new place. Plus, before the move one of my laptops stopped charging, and this week, my tiny backup travel ipad-ish thing ALSO stopped charging. Arg. I am currently on hubby’s computer, and just today I broke down and ordered a new laptop, so hopefully when it arrives, my computerish problems will be done, at least for awhile.

I wanted to check in briefly this afternoon to share two things with you.  First up is this awesome youtube video showing how to make blinds into roman shades.  I am totally doing this in my bedroom using room-darkening fabric.  Should be both cute AND awesome for day-sleeping which I do a couple days a week.

Second, I wanted to tell you about Stephanie’s Etsy shop where she creates all sorts of inspirational art.  Awhile back, she wrote to tell me that she used the title of my post Love, Unrationed as the name for her Etsy shop–I was so touched.


If while browing her site, you happen to find a bit of encouragement that you’d like somewhere in your own home, she’s offering a coupon code for you all!  How neat is that?  To receive 40% off, just type GO40OFF into the coupon field when you place an order on her Etsy site.  Happy looking!

Bonus hours

What with moving in 17 days— 17, people!– and Christmas in 24, I’ve been wishing I could find some bonus hours in the day somehow. Well, this morning I was granted my wish. After working night shift all weekend (and sleeping the subsequent days), this morning I woke up at 4 AM completely unable to go back to sleep.  So I’m just going with it.   There might be a nap this afternoon.  But for now I am mapping out all sorts of things that I’d like to accomplish today.

On the agenda:tater tot casserole

  • Bring the van  to Wal-mart to jump start my car which decided to die there last evening.  Bah.
  • Empty more kitchen cabinets and get more things packed away into the storage unit.
  • Take down the upper cabinets over the stove top, so that my husband can install the new range hood we bought to update the look of the kitchen.
  • Make 3 tater tot casseroles to freeze as easy meals for busy days in the next few weeks.
  • Gather paperwork needed from the bank for our house closing.  (Did I mention that’s in 17 days??  Eeek!)
  • Put up the Christmas tree and finish other decorating here.
  • Decide what to make for family dinner on Saturday.

Meanwhile despite all the busyness, I keep finding myself wandering over to Pinterest thinking of various projects I am hoping to do in the new house. One fun idea is a minimalist sideboard in the dining area that (with bar stools) could double as a school desk for the girls, or be used to serve food when we are having a big crowd over.  Here are two versions of it that I really like.

Shabby Chic

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And then just for fun, here’s an easy peasy table decor idea for Christmas. The only problem would be keeping the kids out of the treats, I think! How are you doing this week? How are you preparing for Christmas?

We have carpet!

The crazy thing about having the same carpet for 22 years is that when you get new carpet, it looks decidedly odd for awhile.  But I suspect that those of you who have NOT spent years and years looking at my living room will more immediately see the great improvement that it is.

For comparison purposes, this first picture is one from a few years back, with different furniture.  But it shows the green carpet and the yellow paint that we just replaced.

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Then here’s the new paint, different furniture, but still the same old carpet.

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And here’s the whole room all done, complete with the new paint and (hooray!) the new carpet!

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It’s a much more neutral look than my yellow paint and green carpet, but I think it will be more pleasing to the average buyer, and (now that my eyes are getting used to it) it looks lovely and clean and serene to me as well. 
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As you can see, I couldn’t resist adding new throw pillows for just a little pop of color though!  I love the orange for fall, and am thinking some cranberry red pillows would be a nice color for the Christmas season.

Did you spot my new floral chairs in the corner of the photo above? They were a $120 Craigslist find– truthfully a little crowded in the current space, but the living room in our new house is huge, and will fit the new furniture nicely.

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What do you think of the chair rail painted white? A terrible thing to do to solid oak, according to my woodworker hubby, but I like the contrast it makes to the grey.

Doing ALL the things

Credit: Hyperbole and a Half

This cartoon so aptly describes my current frame of mind that I just had to share it with you.  I am bopping madly from task to task to task, seemingly adding things to the list as fast as I am checking them off.  Here are a few highlights from the week

  • Did an hour-long interview with Faith Radio talking about Forever Mom: What to Expect When You’re Adopting | Listen here or pick up the e-book for 99 cents!
  • Worked on clearing out the garage so we can paint it soon.  We actually have some empty shelves now, so I must be making progress.
  • Sold extra canning jars.  I still have at least 150 in the pantry full of fruits and veggies.  I’m pretty sure that will be more than enough at our new house where we are likely to only have a few tomatoes and peppers, and maybe a few (purchased) bushels of apples to sauce in the fall.
  • Brought two loads of clothes to the thrift store.  The kids are really getting into the decluttering spirit, and most of them have spent time weeding out what they don’t need.
  • Set lots of trash out for the trash man.  Crazy how much old stuff a garage can hold without you even being aware of it.
  • Delivered some of the more useful items to my married daughters.
  • Sorted through books in bookshelves, giving some away, bringing some to the bookstore for credit, and boxing some up to go on to the new house.  Our bookshelves cover most of the walls in the upstairs family, and since the family room really needs to be painted, the books and shelves need to be some of the first things boxed up.
  • Did senior pix for our three seniors, something that did not thrill them but that I think will gain some nice additions to our wall.
  • Installed new lights in various halls and closet.  I found some amazingly good-looking lights for just $8 each.  Definitely an upgrade from the old gold fixtures.
  • Installed new smoke detectors, not because they were broken but because they were old and yellowed and looked terrible against the new grey paint on the walls.  It is really hard to decide how much fixing up is essential, and how much won’t matter a bit to a buyer. That $45 purchase is a perfect example of ‘maybe not necessary, but it looks so much better.’  Problem is, the budget will buckle under too much of that, so I’m trying not to get too carried away.
  • FINALLY finished repainting all the doors in the house.  Wow, that job went on and on.
  • Fixed the tracks on three closet doors.  What a wrestling match that was!  I have sore shoulder muscles today to prove it.
  • Spent the week bummed that I lost my fitbit charger, because I have been a perpetual ball of activity, and didn’t get fitibit ‘credit’ for any of it.   But the new charger came today–hooray!
  • Last but not least we chose kitchen cabinets and counters.  I went with white shaker style cabinets and a mid-tone granite containing white, grey, black and just a little of the red-brown of our floor. The granite has some motion and patterning, but is not hugely busy.  Backsplash is subway tile with a thin line of accent tiles.  All the choices were moderate in cost but should combine to make a nice upscale, neutral, clean look.  I am excited to see it all come together!

That’s all I have time for today– I am off to do battle with the garage today!  Hope your week is going well!

Cartoon credit to Hyperbole and a Half. (Language warning)


We got the house!!! Closing December 18th. So exciting!  And what a crazy time of year to be moving…

This morning I’m off to look at cabinet choices for our current house.  Our goal is to put it on the market January 1st.  What a lot we have to do!

On pins and needles

Well, after several weeks of looking for just the right place, we’ve put in an offer on a house. It’s much closer to John’s work, and on a much smaller property, but has a big common area to run the dog and have picnics and host our annual 4th of July bash.  My favorite part is a mega-huge living room– perfect for having our mob over for Sunday dinner.

It’s a foreclosure property, and we’re crossing our fingers that the bank will accept our offer.  We think we may hear something today, so I’ll keep you posted.  Meanwhile our painting efforts have moved upstairs, and we have a someone coming in today to measure our kitchen for new cabinets.

Something about using a house hard for 22 years leaves the cabinets less than stellar, and prevailing wisdom these days is that kitchens sell houses. So here’s what I’d love to hear from you today: in your ideal kitchen, what color would the cabinets and counters be?   Here are some ideas that appeal to me at the moment.


But I thought it would be fun to take a poll and see what you all think makes a pretty kitchen. Here’s a photo of the current kitchen so you can get an idea of the space I’m working with.

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It actually doesn’t look bad on the surface–we’ve thought of leaving the cabinets and just adding granite.  But the insides of the cabinets are very worn– lots of chips and broken bits as well as water damage under the sink. All that wear would be a real turnoff to a buyer, especially at the price point at which we hope to sell.

So tell me:  lighter or deeper cabinets?  What tones of granite would you have in your dream kitchen?  By all means share pinterest links and photos if you have ideas.


The painting that never ended

I was trying to figure out today why after only one night of work I am so exhausted.  Then I realized that probably it is not just the night of work.  It is the fact that for the past five days anytime that I haven’t been scurrying around running a million errands, I’ve been painting.

I’ve painted halls and doors, the kitchen, the living room, the dining room, the entry way, and the staircase to the upstairs. For at least two days while working on the living room, I was having anxiety attacks about the grey paint not being right.  But honestly, I just kept thinking, I don’t care if I hate it. Get it done.

However, once we started getting the white trim painted, it all started coming together in a hopeful way.  The grey popped in a really nice way against the white, and it really grew on me.  I found a fun art print to put on the living room wall that does a nice job tying in the grey with the tans on the couches.  I have some new throw pillows coming.  And– oh, the glory!– after 22 years with the same green carpet, we have new carpet being installed in two weeks.

I am resisting the urge to show you photos right now in the middle because I want to show you true ‘after’ photos instead.  But it’s coming together!  Hooray!  And maybe someday I will find time to sit down and actually write again.  Are you enjoying your fall?  Do you have any fall projects in the works?

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