Worth reading (and a giveaway!)

Between yard work and OB work and the challenging work of parenting teens fluttering on the edge of the nest, I haven’t been reading lots of books lately. But two that I’ve read are very worth mentioning.

First off is an excellent book about relationships called Attached. This book is actually geared toward adults at two different stages of life:  people seeking a marriage partner, and people who are already married but wanting to improve their relationship and learn to interact on a deeper level so that both partners can feel more satisfied in the marriage.

You’d think that dual focus might be hard to pull off, but actually the authors did a good job of thoughtfully addresses the challenges at both those points in life.  The premise of the book is that most people tend toward one of three basic attachment styles:  anxious, avoidant, or secure.  These styles affect who you are drawn to in a marriage partner, AND how you mesh with your partner in a relationship.

This book contains lots of stories and illustrations to help you identify your own type as well as the tendencies of those around you, and gives good practical help for avoiding the pitfalls of each type, and working toward a secure style of relating to your loved one.  I highly recommend this book for anyone from young adult on up to an ‘old-married’ person like myself.

Then there’s the most recent book I finished, The Boy With The Bamboo Heart.  This book tells the story of an orphan who survived great struggles during his childhood in Thailand and then went on to found a children’s charity.  There’s some language in the book, and some frank talk about the very hard things that happened to him.  But the most memorable message in the book to me was the many places where kind adults intervened, gave him a chance, and helped him overcome his very difficult beginnings so that he could go on to become a productive, successful, and very kindhearted member of society.  I couldn’t help but finish the book wanting to be just that kind of influence in the lives of kids around me.

I’m giving away a copy of this book here in a couple days.  If it sounds like something you’d be interested in reading, comment below and tell me about a book that has inspired you to reach out to others and do more in the world.  In fact, whether you’re interested in the giveaway or not, I’d love to hear any book recommendations you have along these lines.

And finally, here is a really great and encouraging article for mothers of strong-willed children:  How to be the mom your strong-willed child needs

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  1. Wendy Peltzer says:

    Choose Joy: Finding Hope and Purpose When Life Hurts
    By Sara Frankle and Mary Carver

  2. The bamboo heart caught my eye. What a great title. I will never forget how Francis Chan’s book “Crazy Love” planted the crazy seed to go to China and adopt a child with a terminal heart condition.

  3. Jenny Goldsby says:

    I just finished You and Me Forever – Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
    You can download it for free on a Iphone or Android
    http://www.youandmeforever.org/
    Our small group is starting the study next month and I am looking forward to reading it again!

  4. Jeri Riddick says:

    Not 2 minutes before I clicked your email open, I thought to myself how I missed reading the last couple of years. Being busy with kids and adopting, it was all I could do to read papers for homestudies! Honestly our reading has been the Bible. We do it as a family, each person reading a different day. Having kids at age 9, 10, 11, 15, and 15, it’s been the first time we’ve read where everyone knows how to read (pretty well). We’ve had a lot of discussion about the battles, the people that chose to follow and not follow their forefathers. It’s been a great relearning experience.

  5. One of the most impactful books I’ve read in recent years is When Invisible Children Sing. I was pretty thrilled when I noticed the names of the pastor and directors of the child development center one of our Compassion kids attend. I think it is the same Dr Chi!

  6. Melissa says:

    This book looks very interesting to me. I just finished reading Rich in Love: When God Rescues Messy People. It was a great read….I accidentally finished it in a day because I couldn’t stop reading! A good “problem” to have! 🙂

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